Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Life Lessons: A Year In Review

2008 was a crazy year. That's the only way to describe it. It was the best and worst year of my life so far. Let's see what happened to me...I got legal, ditched all my HS friends, moved to LA, went to my first strip club, lived in my first apt, got extremely depressed, worked at a dry cleaner's, started blogging for Missbehave, broke up with my bf twice, had my first drink at a bar, bought really cute clothes, went to my first LA party, got on Shadowscene twice, and stayed out till 6 am.

It was b-a-n-a-n-a-s.

But like they always say, hindsight is 20/20, and now that 2008 is one day from drawing to a close, I find myself more easily putting things into perspective. So, with that, these are my takeaways from '08:

1. Never bite the hand that feeds you unless you can feed yourself.
2. You really, really, really can do anything you set your mind to.
3. Nothing that you don't have a passion or even interest for is worth doing.
4. The world is only open to give you everything if you are open to receiving it.
5. Everything happens for a reason.
6. Setbacks and disappointments are actually opportunities in disguise.
7. Be cool. Be confident. Be humble. Be ready. Be you. (Actually I think I might write that on something)

What happened to you? What did you guys learn? We've all done some pretty noteworthy things this year. Share!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

The Premiere!



Ladies! I picked this up at Border's the other day. I thought it was a good choice because:
A. It has a little strappy thing to keep loose objects intact (the American postal system is a little outrageous)
B. It has lined paper, graph paper, AND blank paper on the inside
C. It has a bunch of pockets...cardboard AND plastic scattered throughout the notebook (like the kind you put pictures and other odds & ends in) so we can put pretty much whatever we want inside of it. Oh and there's a zipper pouch in the back, too.
D. It's covered in Russian dolls!
E. It was on sale!

So, what do you guys think?!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Happy Holidays from all the single ladies (all the single ladies) at Brooklyn Prom Queen!


So now that we're acquainted, will you save me the last dance? My friends will think I'm cool if they see me with you.

Love, your friends to the end:
--Erika,
--Valentina,
--the Mackinest,
--and Sarah!

P.S. Everybody got each other's addresses yet?

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Alex, You're A Genius!

I mean you'd have to be for the idea you just came up with! Ladies, Alex is proposing we get a notebook and pass it around between the four of us. While each of us has the notebook, we can fill it with drawings and writing and anything we happen to collect while in possession of the notebook.

That's completely the best idea ever! Ever. Evvvverrrr.

I also have a fantastic follow-up idea. What if we used the pages in that notebook for a zine? And instead of doing White Rice, we'll just call the zine Brooklyn Prom Queen! It'll be just like publishing, only we can also add our superb writing skillz and harness our mad journalistic steez!

As per V's suggestion, Alex would totally start the notebook off in Queens (you live in Queens right? Er, you live in Jamaica, but that's in Queens?), and then it could move from East Coast to West Coast...so to Sarah in Tulsa, then me in the Valley, and end with V in Pomona, who could keep it for a bit then start it all over?

What do you guys think? My mind is literally moving faster than my fingers so I doubt I'll be able to get all my ideas down about this fantasticness.

Open forum!

E

Has anyone read the new Missbehave yet?

I would SO have it right now if I could drive. However, do you? How is it? Super Mega Ultra Awesome, or not so much without Mary H.K. Choi? Tell me about it if you have it!

Oh, and um, PLEASE look at what I found on Google, right here.
I... think I need it... HOOK ME UP, EBAY!

Greyhound Buses are Prime Reading Locations

So, I made it through the storm (the BLIZZARD) and into New York yesterday. Only it took me almost 8 hours for a trip that normally takes 4. Hmph. Anyways, I was freaking out right before I left because I've been looking for my copy of Angels & Demons, by Dan Brown (the book he wrote prior to The DaVinci Code) and couldn't find it ANYWHERE. I recently watched the movie version of The Davinci Code (the book was way better) and was in the mood for some Vatican conspiracy theories. I was running late for my bus, the weather sucked, and I needed a book to travel with. I can't travel without a book. So, surprisingly, my Mom appears with two books. One of them entitled, Bass Ackwards & Belly Up, by Elizabeth Craft and Sarah Fain.

My first bit of news is that I managed to finish the entire thing by the time I got to NY. The second, is that I actually really liked it! The novel follows four girls, all best friends, from Boulder, Colorado in the ending days of the summer following their high school graduation. It's all very Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants-esque (perhaps a tad more mature), filled with scenarios that are precious and tragic and funny and so cute, but rare to occur in real life. The difference with this book though, is that it's also filled with unhappy endings. And disaster. And quirks. And cliffhangers. All the things that not only make a great teen fiction novel, but that add just the right amount of humanity to the story to make the reader, well, keep reading. It's the perfect balance between fairy tale (best-case scenario), nightmare (absolute worst-case scenario), and reality (duh, real life). And isn't that the whole point?

Meet Sophie, Harper, Becca and Kate. All have a plan. A post-high school plan. Except, a few days before said plan is set to be executed, EVERYTHING changes. Deceit, lies, adventure, love, heartbreak, soul-searching, friendship and some pretty crappy hostels in Europe follow. I don't really want to start talking about the plot in detail, because then I'll give the entire story away. And that would ruin all the fun.

So, instead, I'll link you to the Barnes & Noble synopsis, which is vague enough to not give the story away, but detailed enough to give you an idea of what's going on.

My favorite character is Becca. Becca is talented, slightly insecure, a bit of an emotional wreck, but she loves her friends fiercely, and to no limits. Even when infidelity (sort of) and betrayal threatens to rip them apart. Plus, prior to certain events in the book, she is practically unable to love (or so she thinks--a revelation I've recently found floating around in my own head). She makes snap judgments (and really bad ones) sometimes and overall, she's just a work in progress. She has a shitty home situation, but she deals with it in a passive way, something I would do. She runs from her problems, and channels the energy into things that she feels in control of. Things that the drama can't touch. Then, she solves it all in a totally cliche scene in a restaurant but, thats just a minor detail.

...

Now, scram! Get to reading!

(There's a sequel, but I don't own it yet. But soon, my friends. SOON!)




Friday, December 19, 2008

This is MY musical dedication to Valentina...


It was too tempting.
I really could not resist.